Today somebody asked me how I deal with people who betray my friendship.
I didn't answer because my answer would shock the person. What happens to me is that the person who betrayed me simply stops existing for me.
He/she dies for me.
And not even a death that is going to make me feel sad.
It's like that person has never even taken a part in my life.
When I like somebody I do it with all my heart. I give this person my best. I really invest myself in the friendship.
So, if this person betrays me it shows me that I didn't evaluate him/her well when we first met.
I didn't pay attention to the signs because there are always signs.
Then I try to learn from my mistake and move on.
I am not going to shed a tear for someone who doesn't value my love, my loyalty, my friendship.
It has happened two weeks ago and that's why this person asked me about it today.
Maybe I am a bit hard on how I react but I'm 58 years old. I am too old to waste my time with people who doesn't deserve it.
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